The LORD's Day June 15, 2008 Happy Father's Day!

Bring Joy To Your Father

Proverbs 29.3, 4.1-23

June 1968- 40 years ago this past week, Robert Kennedy was gunned down by an assassin, Sirhan Sirhan in California. Just two months earlier Martin Luther King had been killed as well. Those were horrible days for our nation.

I remember June 1968 for another reason, one much more joyful. I graduated from sixth grade from Martin Avenue Elementary School in Bellmore, complete with cap and gown and diploma!

I also had an autograph book. Classmates, teachers and family wished me well in it.

My Sunday School Teacher wrote Proverbs 3.5-6 in it and said to use this as a guide for your life. I have sought to do that.

It was my grandmother who wrote a portion of the scripture we read this morning, Proverbs 4.23 “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life” 40 years ago I received it. 40 years later I am sharing it with you on this Father’s Day. God had this all worked out. This is a moment when we are onto something He lined up from the beginning.

God, the Father, Our Father in Heaven, was obviously speaking to me back then 40 years ago so much that He had my Nana write it down. He is speaking to me and you today. He wants us to walk with Him. He wants us keep guard over our hearts.

It is His design that Proverbs are in the father-son or father-sons dialogue. It was Solomon speaking to his son, but it was and is God the Father speaking to you and I as His children in these Proverbs.

We are told a man who loves wisdom brings joy to his father. He makes him glad. To love wisdom is to have it close as you would a friend, it means to be like it. The man who holds wisdom close, who reflects in his life will bring joy to his father.

On this Father’s Day let’s think about our heavenly Father for a few moments and let’s thinking about making Him glad by the fact that we have embraced wisdom like a close friend and we love it so deeply that our lives reflect that.
First let’s speak of this point of making our Father in Heaven glad. This is definitely something we do not think of enough. We think of what we need and what we are concerned with. We think others needs. We struggle at times with doubts and ask the LORD to help our unbelief but we do not very often think about this matter of making glad the heart of God.


How do we bring joy to our Father in Heaven?


1. We bring joy to Him by obeying Him. Genesis 22.17-18
“Because you have obeyed Me.” First time the word obeyed is mentioned in the Bible is with the father of the faithful, Abraham, and in reference to his obedience.

God has not made it complicated for us to understand obedience. He has wrapped it up into daily living. He has given us basic commandments. Jesus boiled it all down to loving the LORD our God with our all and our neighbor as ourselves.

We know His will by knowing His Word. A great reason for the lack of obedience to God is that many do not know what His Word says. A great deception takes place among believers when they have not become grounded in God’s Word.

All of us Dads know what a joy it is (or was) to have our children obey us. It made our hearts glad. It brought harmony between us. We also know that there is no such thing as a perfect child. We know the pain and struggle there is with disobedience. Bring that to the relationship we have with our Father in Heaven. It is to our advantage, for our good that we obey Him. The motive should be first that we love Him. The whole growth and development of a child is here.

In John 14, after He said that He is in the Father and the Father is in Him, He said “If you love Me, you will obey what I command.”- John 14.15


2. We bring joy to our Father in heaven by keeping in touch with Him regularly.

Prayer is not just asking God for things when we need them, it is having fellowship with Him all the time.

Those of us who are older like to hear from our kids. We love to do things for them but we enjoy just hearing from them for no reason other than wanted to say hi. Unfortunately our high paced world is making that more difficult.

Few of the LORD’s children ever reach the joy of fellowshipping with Him on earth in quiet waiting and wonder in pausing and giving Him thanks and praise. This is not only a wonder filled experience for us it is brings joy to our Father in Heaven.

A Daily Quiet Time is so needed. I know of one couple where the husband would watch the children so his wife could have her time of quiet with Jesus each day. I believe that not only brought joy to the wife but joy to our Father in heaven.

Hang out with the LORD- you will experience joy in your soul while making the LORD glad.

3. We Bring Joy to our Father in Heaven by Lives of Wise Choices Springing from Wisdom

This is one of the purposes of Proverbs. Proverbs 1.1-7

It is not live and learn rather it is learn and live. Many young people today are suffering the consequences of foolish choices. They made bad choices because they lacked wisdom. Had they been taught the Proverbs and become friends with it, become like the book itself in that their lives spoke of the Proverbs by their actions they would have avoided so much pain and suffering and sorrow. If that is your situation this morning, God has grace for you. All is not lost. There is a way out. Make Jesus LORD of your life and begin to read this book and aim to live by it. We can avoid scars through applying wisdom.

4. We Bring Joy to our Father in Heaven by giving gifts to Him.

We are really not giving things that are ours in the first place. God is the giver of all good gifts. They have come down from Him. We are in reality honoring Him by giving and acknowledging that He is the One Who has given these things to us in the first place. You say, “Well I worked hard for what I have.” Oh and Who gave you the strength?


We think God needs us to give. How ludicrous! We need God He does not need us.
In fact I’m at that point now where I have a great deal of stuff- too much! My mother got upset when I told her there was nothing we really needed for Christmas this past year. However I still enjoy getting gifts on Father’s Day from my kids, not because of need but because of it is a way they express their love for dear old dad. It is a personal thing.

Now God has set up the church so that the giving to Him in part supplies the needs of ministry. If everyone gave what God placed in their hearts to give all the needs of the church would be met. I personally do not believe that stewardship campaigns were part of the early church. There were no needy among them because everyone was moved by the Spirit to give out of love for Jesus.

5. We Bring Joy to the Father in Heaven by guarding our hearts and lives. 4.23

We are not home yet. We must be on our guard. If we think it cannot happen to us we are in great danger of falling. We are all tempted. Many have fallen in their last years. What a tragedy! A mature Christian getting caught in a sin is possible and when it happens it is very sad.

Guard you heart.

Two meanings- blockade it- God’s Word and Prayer, Fill it with good things and thoughts
Confine it - Do not let certain things in, Keep it from imaginations that are evil.


Bring Joy to your Father in heaven- guard your heart- out of it are the issues of life. An example: Greed in the heart can result in stealing from someone. Love in the heart will result in giving.

Bring joy to your Father in Heaven:
Obey Him
Talk to Him
Live a life of wise choices
Give gifts to Him
Guard your heart and your life- keep it for Him!

The LORD's Day, June 8, 2008

A Faithful Man

Proverbs 28. 1-20
A faithful man will be richly blessed

The Word of God has a lot to say about being a faithful man, not so much in amount as in depth. It is interesting how so often we look at quantitative things to the exclusion of depth. There are a few verses which specifically speak about the faithful man but each one carries with it a depth of character and meaning.

The first thing we are told about a faithful man is found a few chapters back and that is:

1. A Faithful Man is hard to find. Proverbs 20.6

Many a man claims to have unfailing love, but a faithful man who can find?

It is not in word only.

Many a man claims to have un failing love. I have had many people tell me they love me. Most of them are nowhere to be found today. Words are cheap. Unless they are backed up by action they are meaningless.

I have some pretty outrageous promises made to me in my ministry. When I was young I used to fall for these things. I used to tell people about them. As I have grown in the LORD I have learned to test the spirits. I have learned that time will tell if what is being promised is true or not. I have learned that Jesus never lets me down. He never fails.

So be careful when you hear promises. Wait. Time will tell if they are true or not. We are being told here that the percentages are against such claims.

It is more in life that a faithful man comes through.

What is a faithful man?
*Firmness, fidelity, steadfastness, steadiness
He stands firmly on Christ.
He is dependable, not given to empty promises.
*faithfulness, trustworthy
You can entrust things to him and they will get done.

A faithful man...
* person who show himself faithful in the transaction of business, the execution of commands, or the discharge of official duties. A faithful man pays his bills on time, including his tithe and offerings, he carries out what has been given to him to do by his superiors. He submits to authority. Give him a job to do and it is as good as done- just a matter of time. Time proves faithfulness. A faithful man can be relied on.
A faithful man is
* one who keeps the faith
He knows the Word of God and lives by it. I Timothy 3.9 One of God's qualification, He had Paul write, for a deacon in the church: They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience. Hold=To have a firm grip, to be married

* in the NT one who trusts in God's promises
A faithful man has faith. He trusts God and what the LORD has said.

* one who is convinced that Jesus has been raised from the dead
This is vital. This is the cornerstone of our faith. Christmas and Easter are not just holidays- Jesus’ birth, death and resurrection is so central. This is doctrine that unites us as believers. You cannot be a follower of Christ without believing this first.

You may find someone who is fairly reliable who is not a Christian, but the word faithful is wrapped up in the knowledge and trust of God’s Word.

* one who has become convinced that Jesus is the Messiah and author of salvation
A faithful man trusts in the LORD as his Savior. He knows Acts 4.12 personally, “Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which we must be saved.

believing, confiding, trusting

2. A Faithful Man will be richly blessed

Blessed= prosperity
This is prosperity of the soul first. A faithful man is going to be richly blessed in his soul. There will be all the rest of the fruit of God’s Spirit in his life: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness and self-control.

The faithful man will be full of spiritual riches. He will be generous but never boastful in sharing them with others.

How about financial prosperity? Well a faithful man is going to give to God. He will tithe his income and give offerings. There is this promise: Malachi 3.10 Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this, says the LORD Almighty, and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it.
There are material blessings that come to those who are faithful. The spiritual blessings are greater. Not everyone is going to be rich but God will bless you if you are faithful and you are being faithful for the praise and glory of God and not to become rich.

a gift, present

treaty of peace Psalm 37.37 Consider the blameless, observe the upright;
there is a future for the man of peace.

3. A Faithful Man is able to pass spiritual truths onto others.
Paul wrote to Timothy (II Tim 2.2) And the things that you have heard from me among many witnesses, commit these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.

Most of what I learned about the LORD came through my Sunday School teachers and my parents. Kids today still need that It is interesting how great a role the dad plays. I sent my parents an anniversary card this week with a picture I had redone of their wedding day. It was in the Nazarene Church in Springfield Gardens, Queens. I was born 2 years later and that was my first church. My mom taught Sunday school there and my dad as well. She had the little kids, my dad the teens. Through this fall and everything good has come, a number of his students, one a pastor now, have written and encouraged them. They are just normal Christians who love Jesus and have been very faithful to pass on spiritual truths. I know my dad passed them onto me, by the way he lived and the words he taught in the home and at church in the teen Sunday School Class.

I was blessed with godly pastors in my youth. They were men who took me under their wing and encouraged me in the faith. One of the youth directors I had just retired. He said with tears at his retirement how he remembered praying with me and encouraging me. He passed on spiritual truths to me- he was a faithful man.

In Bible College I had three professors, two of which are in heaven and one who is our LINKS Missionary this year, who were models of godliness and faithfulness.

I am in great debt today, but so are you. You have been given God’s Word- entrusted with it! It is our responsibility to pass it on to others. What are you doing with your entrustment these days? Too many are being unfaithful.

The gospel is passed this way. We share with one person and then another shares. Do you know we can trace our roots back to the church at Jerusalem- to the disciples?

Be a faithful link in the chain!

A faithful man is hard to find, a rarity. He will be richly blessed. He holds and at the same time passes on the deep truths of the Word of God.


By God’s Grace and for God’s Sake and Those you Love, be a faithful man

The LORD's Day, June 1, 2008

How To Face Tomorrow

Proverbs 27.1, Matthew 6.25-34

We all have known people who boasted. We also knew people who were worry warts. These two sets of people are on different ends of the same spectrum.

The issue here is tomorrow and how to face it. The word tomorrow can mean the literal tomorrow as the next day or it can be translated the future.

Interestingly, one extreme is the trusting in oneself and the other is the lack of faith in God. Both are sin. In one there is a inflated opinion of self and in the other a deflated view of Almighty God.

I read this week in Nelson Bell’s biography, Billy Graham’s father-in-law, that he was influenced by a Chinese doctor, Leland Wang, to read a chapter of Proverbs every day. Dr. Wang said, “because it is the book which allows us to relate our own lives to fellowmen.” 20 years later Nelson Bell would pass on that habit to young Billy Graham. No wonder, as I have told you before, that Billy Graham wrote in the foreword of this book, “Dr. Nelson Bell was one the major influences in my life and my ministry, in fact, as I look back, I am convinced that one of the reasons, God, in His providence, allowed Ruth Bell to become my wife was so that Dr. Nelson Bell would become my father-in-law!” One of the things he passed on was this daily reading of a chapter of Proverbs. This is something we would do well to practice in our own lives!

I think we need to read this verse regularly because how often do we take comfort in our circumstances. If things are going well, praise the LORD. If they are not, What shall we do?!

We need to trust in the LORD with all our heart and not lean on our own understanding. Boasting about tomorrow is leaning on our own understanding. It is saying, “I’m all set. I have a good life ahead. Everything is coming my way.”

Jesus spoke about the man who did this. Luke 12.16-21. He thought he was all set for years ahead and he did not realize that he was going to die that very night!


1. Do not Boast About Tomorrow 27.1

Boasting is aimed at our fellow man. How we desire to impress them! It makes us feel good. It gives off an air of superiority. When I was young and did not understand this dynamic, I would be in the presence of a boaster and come away feeling pretty low. They have a way of doing that.

Put this to death! If it rears its ugly head in you put it down. Humble yourself. Don’t fall into this trap of praising yourself, glorying in yourself.

Boasting is a lot of hot air! Puffed up and let out. It is unbecoming to those who are following Jesus Christ. He humbled Himself. He became a servant. When a believer boasts he breaks fellowship with His LORD at that point. He must repent!

Boasting is foolish!

I Corinthians 4.7 What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?

A message to Ammon in Jeremiah 49.4 Why do you boast of your valleys, boast of your valleys so fruitful? O unfaithful daughter, you trust in your riches and say, 'Who will attack me?'

Our greatness as a nation as we spoke of last week was not and is not in our military might. I am thankful for our military. However if you go back to our past, our history- there are lessons to be learned. We were vastly outnumbered during the Revolutionary War. It was not our might that won. It was we were humble and depended upon God.

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1.17

If you couple the verse from the Corinthians and the verse James writes together you see why boasting is foolish.

Do not boast. James has more to say on the subject of boasting about tomorrow.
James 4.13-16
As believers we should be humble about our travel and business dealings and all of life. We should all come under the authority of God’s will, in our praying and in our planning. The LORD has designed things to be that way and in following Him we avoid so much grief and pain in our lives.

Now how to handle tomorrow... I would say that boasting for the most part is not a huge problem for us but there is something about tomorrow that is and that is worry!


2. Do Not Worry About Tomorrow Matthew 6.34

Worrying is aimed at God. It is a lack of trust in not only His ability but His will for us.

Worrying is as foolish as boasting. While many of us would not boast about tomorrow we worry about it. We imagine all kinds of horrible scenarios for our lives. Worrying can actually make us sick! Physically ill! We use the phrase worried sick- it is an apt description.

What is worry?

Psalm 139- know my thoughts= sar`aph = disquieting thoughts. Now we are on to something. You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. Isaiah 26.3 Perfect peace comes from focusing on Christ instead of how He will meet our needs.

Take no thought/ do not worry ...Worry in the New Testament= merimnao- to be anxious, to be troubled with cares, to care for, look out for (a thing), to seek to promote one's interests, caring or providing for

What is the “normal” state of mind for the believer?
You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. Isaiah 26.3 The normal state is kept in perfect peace.
Keep = to guard, watch, watch over, keep, to preserve, guard from dangers
observe, guard with fidelity, to be kept close, be blockaded, watchman The LORD does this so we can rest. It is His work. If you ask me to do watch guard duty I could fall asleep, but He Who watched over Israel neither slumbers or sleeps. His vantage point, His power, etc.

Perfect Peace = Shalom Shalom
completeness, soundness, welfare, peace, safety, health, prosperity
quiet, tranquillity, contentment, with God especially in covenant relationship
complete peace
quiet safety
sound contentment
peaceful tranquility
healthy prosperity

We lose our peace when we look attentively at our problems and predicaments and wonder how we can resolve them. Our sights are off Jesus and His promises. We are leaning on our own understanding.

How do we regain it?
Repent and do the things you did at first

Years ago when I was driving my car and stressing and fretting over a situation out of my control, my daughter, Theresa, who was in her late teens at the time and sitting in the back seat, began singing this song:

My only hope is you Jesus,
My only hope is You.
From early in the morning til late at night,
My only hope is You.

Maybe you need it sung to you this morning. I have been singing it a lot lately.

We face tomorrow with the LORD. We don’t boast about tomorrow. We don’t worry about tomorrow. We know Who hold tomorrow and we know Who holds our hand! I love Jesus’ words

do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

My only hope is you Jesus,
My only hope is You.
From early in the morning til late at night,
My only hope is You.

The LORD's Day, May 25,2008, Memorial Day Weekend in The USA

One Nation, Under God

Proverbs 14.34 Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a disgrace to any people.

Solomon wrote this. God inspired him to do so. Solomon was king over Israel. Israel had been a theocracy, a nation without a human king. This was God’s will for Israel. He desired to be the One Who would lead this nation and use them to bless the whole world. What God desired for them did not the match the people’s desire and He knew it. He knew when they got into the land He had promised them that they would look at the other nations and desire a king like them.

Deuteronomy 17.14 When you enter the land the LORD your God is giving you and have taken possession of it and settled in it, and you say, Let us set a king over us like all the nations around us,... Then God went on to tell them His qualifications for the king

It is sad that the nation of Israel never really got to experience the fulness of what it would have been to be a theocracy. They wanted a king and except for David the ends of those kings were for the most part tragic.

Here we are on another Memorial Day Weekend. It is a time among many other things of remembrance. As a nation tomorrow we remember those who gave their lives so we could be free while on this earth. For the next few months we think about this- this weekend, Flag Day and the Fourth of July. I read recently that the founder of the Church of the Nazarene, while he was still a Methodist pastor, used to drape his pulpit with the American flag during our nation’s Civil War, in support of the union and the freedom of slaves. His congregation burned him an effigy.

Our nation is in the throws of great confusion today. We are in danger of electing a president not on what he believes but on how appealing he is. I could go on about our flaws. You know them. We need to pray for the Americans today. We are flirting with the things that brought other nations down.

The way for a nation to be exalted is given here.

1. Righteousness Exalts a Nation

America rose up from a concern about religious freedoms. The Pilgrims came seeking a place to worship as they wanted to without an attachment to the government. This conviction was basic to our constitution. There was to be no state religion. That is what separation of church and state means. It wasn’t to protect the nation. It was protect the church

God blessed America. Its development was ordered by God. America is great because she is good. If America ceases to be good, America will cease to be great.
Alexis de Tocqueville


America became high and lofty. God exalted her. We did not become the world’s lone super power by ourselves.

Let me give you the whole of what Tocqueville said:
I sought for the greatness and genius of America in her commodious harbors and her ample rivers — and it was not there … in her fertile fields and boundless forests — and it was not there … in her rich mines and her vast world commerce — and it was not there … in her democratic Congress and her matchless Constitution — and it was not there. Not until I went into the churches of America and heard her pulpits flame with righteousness did I understand the secret of her genius and power. America is great because she is good, and if America ever ceases to be good, America will cease to be great.

God blessed America. He set her on a high place. If you go to a National Cemetery and look at those white head stones you will not find one solider who died for his country in act of aggression. Quite the contrary, you will find men who died for someone else’s freedom- ours or some other nation under a tyrant who needed to be removed for the good of humanity. America has never begun a war that was not for the sake of human freedom in one form or another.

That is one reason people become Americans. They feel uplifted just being here “This is the America they told me about ”- Christian Sarmiento +

God has been faithful to our nation for generations. Righteousness exalts a nation.

Righteousness exalts a nation. This has to do with justice in our courts. It has to with a fair rule. Our courts were set up to give justice to all. We were lifted to a position of power not because of ourselves but because God honored the way we treated people. Our flaws have been there all along. We did bad things but our history shows they were corrected and the truth has come out.

Part of righteousness is humility and when mistakes in error were made reparations were made.

Righteousness exalts a nation. Our nation has a history of treating its most vulnerable citizens, the young, the old and the disabled with respect and honor. That is our heritage.

In many ways there are similarities to our history and Israel’s. For years the school children of America heard the Word of God read to them in school. In 1963 this was declared unconstitutional and it was banned along with prayer. Here we are 45 years later with mass shootings in our schools, we have metal detectors and security cameras in our public schools. Good teachers have retired early.

2. Sin is disgrace to any people- even Americans and Israelites

It is a shame that we lost so much We mourn the loss of our soldiers this Memorial Day, from the Revolutionary War until the last young man who died in Iraq.
But the other loss in America is our morality and our sense of right and wrong. We lost the respect and fear of God we once had.

Israel thought they had a special favored nation status. They thought they could go against God without paying a price. They thought Psalm 135.4 For the LORD has chosen Jacob to be his own, Israel to be his treasured possession meant they could do whatever they wanted. They were wrong.

This morning on this Memorial Day we need to listen to what God is saying to our country...

Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a disgrace to any people.

II Chronicles 7.14 If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 15 Now my eyes will be open and my ears attentive to the prayers offered in this place. 16 I have chosen and consecrated this temple so that my Name may be there forever. My eyes and my heart will always be there.

17 As for you, if you walk before me as David your father did, and do all I command, and observe my decrees and laws, 18 I will establish your royal throne, as I covenanted with David your father when I said, 'You shall never fail to have a man to rule over Israel.'

19 But if you turn away and forsake the decrees and commands I have given you and go off to serve other gods and worship them, 20 then I will uproot Israel from my land, which I have given them, and will reject this temple I have consecrated for my Name. I will make it a byword and an object of ridicule among all peoples. 21 And though this temple is now so imposing, all who pass by will be appalled and say, 'Why has the LORD done such a thing to this land and to this temple?' 22 People will answer, 'Because they have forsaken the LORD, the God of their fathers, who brought them out of Egypt, and have embraced other gods, worshiping and serving them—that is why he brought all this disaster on them.'

We pray for a movement of God that would cause this nation to return to its roots. We cry out to God for mercy because it strikes fear in our hearts to think we might get what we deserve

We pause this morning and you are here this morning because you care about the LORD and you care about what happens here on earth, in our nation.

May the LORD draw us back. May Americans realize what they have today has come from God. He has blessed us. But as He warned Israel, there is danger in being blessed. The blessings can come before Him. If they do they are idols and other gods. Don’t let that happen to you. Keep your eyes upon Jesus. If it has happened Turn your eyes upon Jesus
L.S. Lawrence’s book excerpt.
(The essence of II Chronicles 7.14)

The LORD's Day, May 18, 2008

What a beautiful LORD's Day here on the Island this morning! May God bless you as you read this message.

How To Keep A Good Reputation

Proverbs 25.1-12

A good reputation is earned. It is maintained by the same things that earned it for that individual.

Paul writing to Timothy about the qualifications of a pastor...
I Timothy 3.7 He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil's trap. 8 Deacons, likewise, are to be men worthy of respect,

As believers we should be concerned about our witness by the way we live or our reputation. Our reputation reflects on our church and our faith. Here is the proper motivation for a good reputation- not to impress others but please God and bring glory to his name. We were bought with a price therefore we are to honor Him.

We cannot please everyone. If we try we will kill ourselves and still not do it. Some people are impossible to please. A young pastor came to D.L. Moody and said, “People are saying terrible things about me.” Moody responded, “Just make it your business to see that none of what they are saying is true.” They criticized Jesus, Paul and others. Billy Graham has his critics. Even God had His critics in heaven

We are not talking about being a people pleaser. We are talking about living in such a way your reflects Jesus Christ to the praise and honor of God.

How do we keep a good reputation?


1. Live a life of Humility (v.6-7)

This is not easy. It is a multifaceted battle. We can even become proud of our humility

A life of humility is having an honest and accurate opinion of myself.

Pride gets us into all kinds of problems that can lead the ruin of our good name.
We think we can handle temptation rather than asking God to deliver us from it.
We think of ourselves more highly than we ought.
We think we know more than everyone else.
We think we are better than everyone else.

Pride makes us boast.
James 4.16 As it is, you boast and brag. All such boasting is evil.

Do not exalt yourself swell- honor oneself.
Proverbs 27.2 Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; someone else, and not your own lips.
It is so unbecoming to hear a person toot their own horn, to listen to someone tell of their successes or accomplishments. I Corinthians 4.7 What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?

A life of humility is means I will seek to think of others higher than myself. The aim is to always do that, becoming like Jesus.

Maintain a good reputation by...
2. Have a lot of Grace (v.8)

Don’t jump to conclusions... work out problems without the legal system when you can.

About this matter of jumping to conclusions... We need to be very careful- lest we damage another person’s reputation. What we see with our eyes is processed through our minds and then conclusions are drawn. Since we are flawed people our opinion is often incorrect. When we are wrong we desire grace. We should be as generous with others as we want God to be with us. God’s grace is abundant.

A person who is full of grace has a good reputation if it is genuine grace and not what Dietrich Bonhoffer referred to as cheap grace. We are told that Jesus came from the Father full of grace and truth. (John 1.14) Again let’s seek to be like Jesus. He had grace for the worst sinners but not a lot of tolerance for the self righteous.

We need an abundance of grace today. This is not compromise. It is the ability to navigate through a society that has lost its way. We cannot accommodate sin but we cannot condemn sinners. Be like Jesus Who came to seek and to save that which was lost.

Be a grace giver!


A good reputation is maintained by...

3. Keep Confidences (v.9-10)

Maintain confidentiality.

A person once told me that they are carrying secrets with them to the grave. I doubt it.

People that are always asking me not to say anything to anyone about what they are telling me are the telling me what they are doing- exactly that. Your speech betrays you.

We keep confidences by never talking about the fact that we are

We keep confidences by forgetting what someone has told us- don’t think about it

We keep confidences by being people of few words- listening more than we speak.

Don’t fall into the sin of gossip. It will stick with you. This idea of a reputation has to with whispering and defamation. I knew a lady whose family referred to as “Aunt Gossip” - how horrible! She loved to talk about others and tell all.



4. Let your conversation always be seasoned with salt (v.11)
Colossians 4.6 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.

Speaking at the right time.

Saying good things that people thirst for more good things!

Appetizing

Zest

Godly

Like Apples of gold in settings of silver! Absolutely beautiful. A person of grace will have thta conversation going out of their lips.

5. Always be teachable (v.12)
Even when it means receiving rebukes.

It is not a pleasant thing to be rebuked. But when were kids it wasn’t pleasant to eat certain vegetables. I hated Lima Beans. My mom loved to buy them. I begged her not too. She didn’t listen to me. Imagine that?! She knew they were good before we knew what fiber was! I shivered when I ate them. They were good for me.

Being rebuked by a wise man is good for us. A wise man’s rebuke is gentle and to the point and points out things in our lives that need correcting.

No one likes a self assured smart aleck. A person like thta has an unteachable spirit.

A person who has a closed mind is unteachable.

Always be growing in the knowledge of the LORD Jesus Christ.

We are doing all of this to bring about praise and glory to God.
When we do that we benefit- we are blessed.

God blesses us with a good reputation.

A good reputation means less stress in our lives and more joy in our soul.

Blessed is the person who has a good reputation. Maintain it!

The LORD's Day, Mother's Day, May 11, 2008

From a Famine to a Feast

Ruth 1-4

The LORD restores souls. When David wrote that line under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, it was his personal experience as well as part of his heritage. The Book of Ruth tells us about that.

The Kinsman Redeemer was responsible for protecting the interests of the needy members of the extended family.

1- He was to provide an heir for the brother who had died.

2- He was to redeem the land that been sold to someone outside the family by a poor relative.

3- He was to redeem a relative that had been sold into slavery.

4- He was to avenge the killing of a relative.

The Kinsman Redeemer had to have:
1- The right- closest relatives first
2- The power- there was a price that had to be paid.
3- The willingness- love, not fear (4.6)

Boaz became Ruth’s (and Naomi’s Kinsman Redeemer). This is symbolic of how Christ Jesus redeemed us.

He found us as helpless foreigners, outside of the Kingdom of God.

He took us in by paying the price for our redemption with His own blood.

Through our union with Christ Jesus the fruit of the Holy Spirit comes out in our lives.

Boaz’s name means, “in Him is strength” Ruth typifies those in need of Christ- alien, destitute, having no right or inheritance, hungry and in need of mercy.

Ruth was a widow, a foreigner

I’m sure that Naomi’s decision to move on the basis of economic reasons was regretted. Moving is not a cure all. In fact I have observed that it can complicate things in a family.

There are some encouraging lessons from this book, which is a love story.


1. There are Times In Life When Things Could Not Be Much Worse 1.1-5

Naomi lost her husband and her two sons in foreign land.

I remember a move after Bible College that convinced some people I was out of God’s Will. As I look back I was right where He wanted me.
He did some things in that year in my life of difficulties that were sweet and purifying and lasting.

Have you ever been at a point when it doesn’t look like things could get worse?
Maybe you are there this morning on this Mother’s Day


2. Often in Those Times Good News Comes (1.6-7)

The LORD has come to the aid of His people.

The famine is over.

God is working


3. The God of All Comfort Cares About Us (2.5-12)

He has pity on us. Psalm 103.13 As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him

God will take care of you. That is true and you can depend upon it.
He gives songs in the night. “At night His song is with me.” (Psalm 42.8) Paul and Silas... Ruth and Naomi...

4. God gives a rainbow when He allows it to rain. (4.13-17)

The first time we see the rainbow is in Genesis 9.8-17 Noah
We see it again in Ezekiel 1.28 Like the appearance of a rainbow in the clouds on a rainy day, so was the radiance around Him. This was the appearance of the likeness of the glory of the LORD. We see it in Revelation 4.3 A rainbow, resembling an emerald, encircled the throne.

God has rainbows for every storm. Sometimes we don’t see them until after it passes. May 12 , 2000, 8 years ago tomorrow my brother Mark went to be with Jesus. He died in a heavy Thunderstorm. His favorite song was As The Deer Panteth for the Water. After he died and my parents came to his home, out front two stately deer ran down the edge of the river bank - his wife said she had never seen that before in the 10 years they lived there. The day after his funeral a white dove appeared in the church parking lot. Marianne, the pastor’s wife, called my mom and told her. A year later when Brother Hazard died, a white dove, on the day of his funeral a white dove landed in my garden. I took pictures of it. That July 4th after his death I was at my parents. They put in a memorial garden with all the plants and shrubs given to them. On that July 4th a storm came in but that evening God put a double rainbow in the sky. I took a picture - kids out on their lawn running around and God was saying, “I keep all My promises .” The deer, the dove, the rainbow... all things God uses in His Word to connect us to leaning upon Him and trusting Him.

He didn’t stop. Theresa, my middle daughter, just had a baby. Mark’s birthday was April 27th, 1960. Tristan Mark was born on April 28, 2008, the day after my brother’s birthday.

He restores my soul! That restoration is a feast of heavenly things. It is God pouring out His love on us. The LORD brings healing to the heart. He is close to the broken hearted and binds up their wounds. He will be with us always right up tot eh very end of the age and then we will go and be with Him forever!

The LORD's Day, May 4, 2008

The Sweetness of Wisdom

Proverbs 24.13-14

13 Eat honey, my son, for it is good; honey from the comb is sweet to your taste.
14 Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.

Life can be sweet or it can be bitter. There are some areas where it is bittersweet. We all have them. But we are experiencing sweetness or bitterness in the decisions we have made and the consequences that follow. If you do not like what you are reaping then change what you have been sowing.

We reap what we sow. Some of this is direct. From our hand to the soil and then up comes what we planted. For example a person who is generous will himself be watered. Some of it is indirect. It is God working quietly. He keeps accounts. He keeps the books. This law has an interesting way of working.

We are told to eat honey. Take it in! It is good!


1. Have some honey in your life! v.13

*Honey may be “your Honey”!
If you are married.
It can be a blessing!
Proverbs 18.22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
Proverbs 20.6 a faithful man who can find?
Ladies If you have a husband who is a faithful man then you are blessed... so much to be thankful for!

Men if you have a good wife you are blessed beyond measure.

*Literal Honey-
For at least 2700 years, honey has been used to treat a variety of ailments through topical application, but only recently have the antiseptic and antibacterial properties of honey been chemically explained. Wound Gels that contain antibacterial honey and have regulatory approval for wound care are now available to help conventional medicine in the battle against drug resistant strains of bacteria MRSA. As an antimicrobial agent honey may have the potential for treating a variety of ailments. One New Zealand researcher says a particular type of honey may be useful in treating MRSA infections. Honey may also be used to alleviate the effects of a sore throat. It is mixed with lemon juice and consumed. The mixture coats the throat alleviating discomfort, and the antibacterial, antiseptic properties are good for the throat as well.

*Honey as Sweet Things In Life:

*Food to eat
Clothes to wear be content! (I Timothy 6.8)


*God’s blessings of Christian fellowship are sweet.
Good thing- to be together in one place with God’s people worshiping Him

Holy Thing- to be of one accord Acts 2.1 with one mind, with one accord, with one passion
Homothumadon is a compound of two words meaning to "rush along" and "in unison". The image is almost musical; a number of notes are sounded which, while different, harmonize in pitch and tone. As the instruments of a great concert under the direction of a concert master, so the Holy Spirit blends together the lives of members of Christ's church.

Needed Thing (Hebrews 10.25)

*God’s Word is sweet Psalm 19.9-10
The ordinances of the LORD are sure and altogether righteous.10 They are more precious than gold, than much pure gold; they are sweeter than honey, than honey from the comb.
Not a set of rules but a way of freedom from the bad things in this life. Having wisdom is like honey in it keeps us from many avoidable bitter experiences in life. When we are wise in God’s Word we can see trouble coming and avoid it. Proverbs 22.3 A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it.

More than a freedom to love, a freedom to serve, A freedom to live. When we enter the path of wisdom we are entering life.

*God’s creation- all free and right in your own backyard or front porch or window! So sweet!

Take a little honey for the journey! Genesis 43.11 Dr. Jenkins Fall 1984 message to Pastors Speculator NY. We need to be thankful for the sweet things. There are sweet things in our life. We need to carry good memories of wonderful things with us. I used to keep scrap books- now I write in my journals.

We need to praise the LORD for answers to prayer.

*God’s Presence- How sweet to trust in Him and walk with Him each day!

Deuteronomy 26.9 He brought us to this place and gave us this land, a land flowing with milk and honey. This can be the experience of God’s people today in the Spirit filled Life. You can have an overflowing experience with Jesus.


2. Wisdom is Sweet to Your Soul v.14

It will keep you from the most destructive things.

Wrong sexual relationships. It can be a wonderful thing within marriage and it can be a devastating thing outside of it. We are warned about this in Proverbs. To be in a monogamous marital relationship in order to enjoy it is a sign of wisdom.

Pursuing dishonest gain. Many people see nothing wrong with this as long as they do not et caught but Proverbs tells us that it take away the very lives of those who go after ill gotten gain.

Bad “friendships”.
Do not be friends-

With a gossip! Proverbs 11.13 A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret.

An angry person Proverbs 22.24 Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man, do not associate with one easily angered, 25 or you may learn his ways and get yourself ensnared.

A stingy man Proverbs 23.7 he is the kind of man who is always thinking about the cost.
"Eat and drink," he says to you, but his heart is not with you.


It will keep you on the good path.
Proverbs 2.8 Then you will understand what is right and just and fair—every good path.

Blessing of righteous living.

Fellowship with Jesus and other believers.


3. Wisdom Gives You a Future Hope

It will not be cut off.

Wisdom gives us the hope of heaven. There is a future- a wonderful one - an indescribable one for those are wise unto salvation.

One of the things that make wisdom so sweet is the benefits and blessings that come to us in this life- in this present age.

One of the other sweet things about wisdom is the blessings that are literally out of his world and in the age to come.

Proverbs 11.7 When a wicked man dies, his hope perishes; all he expected from his power comes to nothing. 8 The righteous man is rescued from trouble, and it comes on the wicked instead.

Eat honey, my son, for it is good; honey from the comb is sweet to your taste.
Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul;
if you find it, there is a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.